What happens when we don’t agree on our child’s activities?

Divorce can be difficult and stressful for you and your children. One of the many challenges you may face is choosing extracurricular activities for your children. This can be a difficult task, as there are many factors to consider, such as the child’s interests, the parents’ schedules and the cost of the activity.

Here are a few tips for choosing extracurricular activities as a co-parent.

Talk to your child

The most important thing is to talk to your child about what they want to do. Ask them what activities they are interested in and what they would like to try. Be sure to listen to their ideas and consider their feelings.

Consider your child’s age and abilities

Some activities are not appropriate for certain ages or abilities. For example, a young child may not be ready for a high-level competitive sport. Be sure to choose activities that are appropriate for your child’s age and abilities.

Think about your own schedule

You will need to make sure that you can commit to the time and energy required for the activity. If you have a busy schedule, you may want to choose an activity that is less time-consuming.

Consider the cost of the activity

Extracurricular activities can be expensive, so you will need to factor in the cost when making your decision. Be sure to discuss the cost with your co-parent and ensure you are both comfortable with it.

Talk to your co-parent

It is essential to communicate with your co-parent about extracurricular activities. Make sure that you are both on the same page about what activities you want your child to participate in. You should also discuss how you will share the costs and responsibilities of the activity.

Be flexible

Things may change, and you may need to adjust your plans. Be prepared to be flexible and to make changes as needed. For example, your child may decide that they no longer enjoy the activity, or they may not be able to keep up with the demands of the activity.

Put your child first

The most important thing is to do what is best for your child. Make sure you choose activities that will benefit them and that they will enjoy.

Choosing extracurricular activities as a co-parent can be challenging. Still, it is essential to do what is best for your child. When you, your ex and your children can work together, you can find a solution that works for everyone.